Saturday, March 22, 2025

Jan-March 2025

Hard to believe the first three months of 2025 has already come and "almost" gone!  Yes, Jeff is enjoying retirement but life is still busy!

The Annual Mid-Winter Bible Conference 2025 was held in January at Antioch.  Jeff was asked to be the speaker.  His subject was "The Rapture of The Saints."  Here is the You-Tube link if you would like to listen to the lessons (scroll down quite a ways to find them.....I've added older lessons, that I had livestreamed on Facebook, since that time and thus these videos are not in date order).

Jeff's Teachings

Some of those attending praying over Jeff  before one of the sessions 💙.  It was another great conference, great music, great food and great attendance.

On January 20th, President Donald J. Trump was inaugurated as our 47th President

One Sunday, although we didn't intentionally do it, we dressed as twins!!  Jeff has lost 60+ pounds and I've lost 30+ lbs.in the last year.  Our blood sugar numbers are much better as well!👏

 Saylor as an "old woman" for 100 Days of School.  Too cute.  Her teacher did the aging picture and had them write what they would do at age 100....loved Saylor's answers: I will be in my rocking chair. I will wear my robe at home. I will live in my grandchildren's' house.  😂😄


February 9th:  It was the Lord's Day, the Sunday before Valentines, and Super Bowl Sunday.  So it was RED day.  And yes I made Peggy Ferrell's strawberry pie for the game at Rob and Kaye's!🔴🟠🏈  Sadly, the Chiefs didn't achieve their 3-Peat!😞

Even though Jeff is no longer Senior Adult Pastor, we will still join our friends as often as we can on their monthly trips.  February's trip was to Heber Springs to see the Swans and eat catfish.  All very enjoyable! 

Over Valentine's weekend, the McCrary kids stayed with us.  It had been a long time since we had all 4.  Eisley stayed here over Christmas with her girl cousins; the boys were here in September when Mom and Dad took Eisley to Dallas for her birthday trip, but it was last summer since all 4 had been here.  They are all sure growing up.  No more babies!  We had a fun time!
Before church Sunday
Weather was miserable, so we played a lot of games!
A new favorite:  "Hiding Hazel"
Our last night together, playing Charades (animals).  Lots of laughs!
The next day after they went home, we had an artic blast of winter.  Central AR got mostly sleet and a little snow but the schools were out the rest of the week.  It was sooooo cold!❄❄

PRETTY GIRLS/HANDSOME DATES
Josh and Saylor on their way to the Father/Daughter Dance💗
Eisley and Jonathan on their way to their Dance as well💗
Can't leave out these grandchildren.....Andy recently posted these pictures of his boys 💙💙
Shep:
Mack:
Pulling these granddaughters from my pictures since I don't have a recent one--our two oldest: Avi and Laine (Laine had all 4 wisdom teeth pulled recently😳)!  
and last but not least, Ellie Kate!

Happy March 9th Birthday to our Daughter-in-Law, Michelle💖!!

DISNEY ON ICE WITH THE MCCRARY'S
We had so much fun going to our first "ice show" with the McCrary family!!  It was a great show!!

Happy "upcoming" Birthday to our Son, Andy on March 25th!💙

Yep! The sisters (and hubbies) are going cruisin’!👏🛳️👏 We are doing a 9 day Southern Caribbean cruise March 28-April 6th (all islands that Jeff and I have not been to before).
(Yes, I purchased us matching shirts)
The picture below was our last cruise together (Fall Foliage up the Northeastern Coast, into Canada in 2018)…which, as with all cruising we have done together, was with Mom (we were so blessed to do 3 cruises with Mom; 1 Europe Bus Trip and two NE vehicle trips). She would be thrilled that we are doing this. She told us, more than once, that after she was gone, she wanted us to remain close. I am so very thankful for the blessing of my sisters and the great relationship we share…not only as “blood” sisters but even more important, as “Sisters in Christ.” 💞💞

We are saddened at the loss of Peggy Ferrell, our brother-in-law Don's mother on March 6th.  Peggy traveled on many of those trips that I mentioned above.  Her husband Wesley went on two of those but on the others, Peggy was Mom's roommate.  In fact, many, many years ago while Dad was still alive, he and Mom and Peggy and Wesley did a vacation together.  We have always considered her and Wesley as "family."  I know she is having a grand reunion with her husband and many others.  I'm sure she and Mom are having a blast catching up!💖  Our love, prayers and sympathy to all the Ferrell family!

Peggy had asked Jeff several years ago to do her funeral.  So Jeff and I and Rob and Kaye traveled to Tyler, TX (New Harmony Baptist Church) for her sweet service on March 11th.  I am copying and pasting what Jeff wrote in his biography (and shared at the funeral) of how Bev (a Kansas girl) and Don (a Texas boy) met💗:
A little background before I post what Jeff wrote.....Bev was living with Jeff and I in Independence, KS.  When Jeff decided he needed to attend the Seminary in Jacksonville, Texas, we told Bev she was welcomed to move with us, which she desired to do.  We chose Tyler as our location to live as there was a nice mobile home park there and greater opportunities for all 3 of us to find jobs.  And now....for the "rest of the story" from Jeff:

It is Wednesday NightTime to Go to Church

    I knew that we needed to find a church home as soon as we moved and so, weeks before the actual move, I looked in the BMAA Directory and Handbook for the churches with a Tyler, TX address.  I saw that New Harmony Baptist Church was the largest and so, we decided to attend this church first.

    On Wednesday evening, November 5, 1975, we started off toward New Harmony Baptist Church and by the end of the evening, I learned that the church was not actually in Tyler but in the community of New Harmony.

    The road out of the city of Tyler was narrow, hilly, curvy, and long.  Because it was dark outside, it made the drive seem even longer.  Finally, we came upon a church building and thought that we had found it.  It was not New Harmony.  It was Mt. Olive Baptist Church.  Someone in the car suggested that if we could not find New Harmony, we could come back and attend this church (since Mt Olive was the name of our home church back in Girard).

    I was just about to give up hunting for New Harmony when we saw the church building. 

More than A Coincidence

    After the service, my mother-in-law Dorothy Boore, who had come down from Kansas to help us move, spoke with a member of the church named Peggy Ferrell.  In the course of the conversation, Dorothy said that she hoped her single daughter Beverly could find a Christian husband here in Texas.  Peggy said that she hoped her single son Don could find a Christian wife too.  This was on Wednesday evening, November 5, 1975 and Bev and Don started dating in February 1976, and 7 months later, I officiated at Don and Bev’s wedding in the New Harmony Church on Sept. 25th. God does some amazing things!  

    Wesley & Peggy Ferrell soon adopted the three of us (Debbie, Beverly, and me) as a part of their family and invited us for Sunday lunch after church on multiple occasions.  My, Peggy could cook and bake!  I loved her strawberry pie and over the last 50 years, she has made me many. 

    Unless you have ever moved away from your family and everyone is a stranger to you—you will never know what it means for a family to invite you to be a part of their family.  I will always love Wesley and Peggy for how they treated us in the beginning and over the last 50 years!  *******

Jeff and I were talking recently about the "what if's" we had not married......how different life would have been.  Had there not been a "Jeff and Debbie," there would not have been a "Bev and Don" or a "Kaye and Rob."  But God.......He had it all planned from the start.....and we are all 6 so very thankful for God's plan!!💕💕💕

The six of us in Israel in 2015

My next post will be all about our cruise.💞

Tuesday, December 31, 2024

Sunday, December 29 -- My Birthday, the Family at Church, Retirement Reception

 On Saturday night while at the church for the family pictures, I "snuck" down to the Sunroom to see the decorations.  The Staff did great with it all!!

Sarah Martin had asked for pictures of Jeff, so I sent her the link to my Google album I did for his 50 years of ministry post and she had those printed and put up all around the room and on the tables.  Thanks, Sarah!!
Nineteen of my Family worshipped together this Sunday!!  A first for all our children, their spouses and 9 of the grandkids (Avi was at her Dad's).  My sister, Kaye, and Rob made a total of 19!  Kaye took the picture right before church started (and Jeff was already on stage).
Jeff doing the "Welcome" for the last time as Senior Adult Pastor
Pastor Jason said some very nice things about him.
The reception was held at 10 (between the two worship services)
It was all so nice - delicious cake, cookies, punch, etc.
We were thrilled our family stayed for the reception (before their long drive home)
Many people came by during that hour and said some very nice things to us!  Antioch is a church full of very warm, loving, caring folks!!  It has been our joy to serve with them and for Jeff to minister to them.  Jeff has also greatly enjoyed working with Pastor Jason and all the Staff (they are the best)!  He will really miss that!  But we will continue to serve and support them and our church family in the capacity of fellow church members!
The girls telling Papa "bye" 😢
Jeff did the welcome in the second service and then we enjoyed a delicious meal at Outback with our "usual" Sunday lunch group (the Harkness and the Heads).  Thanks to Keith and Wilda for buying our lunch for my birthday!!
Yes, they gave me dessert (I shared!) and the servers sang to me 💖!
We received so many nice cards, cash, gift cards and gifts!  THANKS TO ALL!!!

Sunday was also the first anniversary of my Mom's passing (she died around 4:45 a.m. on December 29, 2023) so a bittersweet day as well.  We all miss her but so thankful she is enjoying her best life in Heaven!  This year has flown by.  

Looking forward to 2025 and all that God has in store for us in another new chapter of life!!  Happy New Year!❤️🎉💙